« January 28, 2023 | Main | January 30, 2023 »

January 29, 2023

You are the only person who has caught the proper tone for sympathizing with an invalid's feelings. Everyone else says, 'We are glad to think that you are by this time in splendid condition, richly enjoying your rest, and having a great success at Edinburgh'—this when what one craves is mere pity for one's unmerited sufferings! YOU say, 'It is a great disappointment, more I should think than you can well bear. I wish you could give up the whole affair and turn your prow toward home.' That, dear sir, is the proper note to strike, 'La voix du coeur qui seul au coeur arrive'; and I thank you for recognizing that it is a case of agony and patience.



—William James
  American philosopher and psychologist(1842-1910)

Source:Letter to Francis Boott, January 31, 1900, in Letters of William James, Vol. 2




copyright©2024 Thomas B. Fitzpatrick, Jr. All rights reserved.